Wednesday 19 March 2014

BEING CONFUSED? IT SUCKS BIG TIME!

From own experience speaking I know it is confusing to have too many choices in your life!

I call this my pre-menopausal midlife crisis.
Puh, that was exhausting. I drove myself, my husband and my boys crazy! Until - I made my decision!
It is true in today's world we can do whatever we want to do!
However, it only works if we are crystal clear about who we are and what we want to do!

Please let me share with you my journey:

 
 
 
THE QUESTHow Do I know what I really want to do?
How do I know what I am good at?

Some sort of midlife crisis can hit us any day - at any age! At one point in life we might feel fed up with our status quo and we think  "Wow, is that it?"

If we are ready to move on and away from our current position / job in life but we aren't sure WHAT exactly it is we want to do next, here are some tips to consider:

- Think back, what did you
love doing when you were a child? (i.e. hobbies)
- What got you excited? (e.g. going on a trip, buying new clothes, trying out the new recipe, taking swimming lessons, writing into your diary etc.)
- Who did you like to hang out with?
(e.g. The quiet, nerdy book worms or the extroverted party goers?)
- What are you attracted to today? 
- What have you seen somebody else do that made you go WOW, how cool?

The secret is to combine the talents you have today with your passions as a child!



 

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